Wednesday, March 14, 2007

My Relationship Is Over

Yes. It's true. I can't really say too much about it right now. Maybe I'll blog more about it one day. Things have been deteriorating for a long time and well? It has now reached an end point.

We are handling things okay and have agreed to remain friends. I hope that this can indeed happen. It's actually one of the better break ups I've had I suppose? But ending relationships..well it is never an easy thing.

This will entail major change for me. Most immediately on a practical level and I have blogged previously about my serious aversion to change. I do not deal well with it.

I will soon need to find my own apartment. I will need to deal with moving. I positively loathe moving. I find it a logistical nightmare and I have problems planning, organizing and packing and am a general dope when it comes to this.

However, I have been down this road before. I shall persevere.


Janine said...

Ugh - no matter how anticipated it may be, these things do still suck. :(

Chrysalis Angel said...

I'm sorry Seaspray. Break ups are so painful. I'm glad to hear you've decided to remain friends. It's always best to do this, if it can be done. Sometimes it can not, if they abuse and are mean, then they have to go. Whatever your situation. I feel for you. I'd give you a big hug if I was there.

Maggie said...

Sorry to hear this PA. Hugs from Liverpool

Patient Anonymous said...

Hi janine, thanks.

Hi CA, I'm not sure if that's a typo but next time you're talking to Seaspray, just make sure you don't mention anything about a break up? I don't know her relationship status but... Anyway, I think you know you were talking to me.

No the situation was never abusive or mean. Just over. It still sucks though.

Hi maggie, nice to see you again. Thanks for the hugs.

sisiphusledge said...

Hugs (((K)))!
I don't know what else to say...a lot of it has been said already!

Wishing you strength in mind and body,

Patient Anonymous said...

Thanks Sis. I try not to overuse the phrase: The only constant in life is change as sometimes I really think I've just had too much of it. And you know my issues with "change" *wink*

But really, when life erupts or change does happen, you must face it head on and adapt. You have no other choice.

Thank you for taking the time to comment on my means a lot to me. And thank you for the hugs too.